1.26.2011

Passive Aggression. And Why Babies Know Better.

Even babies know better than that.

They are masters at “growing up”.

It’s charming for an infant to use pity to manipulate us to get more attention.  It’s cute when they play with our emotions to distract us from their inadequacies.  But every driving thought they have is in the pursuit of learning enough to grow out of that primitive behavior.

They want out.  And for some reason we want in.

Everything they throw away, we want to adopt.

And that just seem plain silly.

And, quite frankly, it’s not a joke.

The next time you think about:

  • Grunting a response instead of saying what you mean
  • Throwing a fit and blaming it on someone else
  • Crawling toward your goals rather than running full speed ahead

Just remember — even a baby knows better.

It will make you think.

Hopefully enough to avoid passive aggression.


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  • http://twitter.com/CoachLee Leanne HoaglandSmith

    One tool to help softly identify that type of behavior is Transactional Analysis. It fell out of favor due to the emphasis on behavior modification. However it is a great way to determine if you are engaged in child, parent or adult role behaviors.

  • http://twitter.com/CoachLee Leanne HoaglandSmith

    One tool to help softly identify that type of behavior is Transactional Analysis. It fell out of favor due to the emphasis on behavior modification. However it is a great way to determine if you are engaged in child, parent or adult role behaviors.

    • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

      Tell me more. Sounds like something that I need to learn more about…

      Dan

  • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

    Tell me more. Sounds like something that I need to learn more about…

    Dan

  • http://CanfieldOfDreams.com/ Joel D Canfield

    A witty wry succinct thought. I like it.

  • http://FindingWhy.com/ Joel D Canfield

    A witty wry succinct thought. I like it.

    • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

      Thanks, Joel…

  • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

    Thanks, Joel…

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