5.12.2011

Stupid People Are Your Biggest Threat to Being Successful.

Let’s just be frank about this whole idea of you being successful.

(And not just the type of success where you learn how to tie your shoes or pay your bills on time.)

Don’t get me wrong. Those are certainly great accomplishments along your quest for world domination.

But you probably want more for yourself.

You think of succcess as something entirely different.

Something much bigger and bolder.

Massive. Mind-blowing. Unforgettable.

That’s what we want for our brand of success.

The chips are down. The odds are cast against us. And yet we rise triumphant.

Like Henri Cochet.

Henri was a champion tennis player who dominated tennis in the 1920′s and 30′s.  But in the semi-finals of the 1927 Wimbleton he was being single-handedly dominated by the formidable Bill Tilden.

He was on the very brink of being eliminated from the tournament — having lost the first two sets.  And the elimination set seemed no different, he was quickly down 5-1 on points. A single point more for Bill and that was “Game. Set. Match”. Henri was done.

But then Henri put on one of the greatest comebacks in sports history. He didn’t give up that point. He went on to win that game, three more sets and the entire match. In fact, he won the entire tournament.

The newspapers reported that the crowd was so stunned that most of them didn’t even applaud. They sat in their seats hardly believing what they had witnessed.

A comeback like this hasn’t happened since.

That’s the type of success you want. Right?

Historic. Legendary. Unbelievable.

That’s what you want for yourself.

So it might be hard to believe that the biggest thing in your path to making that happen is “stupid people”.

Nothing will be more critical to your success than the art of navigating around the stupid people in your life.

They’re the people telling you that:

  • “It’s time to get serious and stop messing around…”
  • “Grow up.  You’re just a dreamer…”
  • “That’ll never work.  Be reasonable…”

They may not even think of themselves as “stupid people”.

Sure – some of them are emotionally crippled, co-loser-dependent pond scum.  But a lot of them are the people closest to you right now.

They’re parents and coaches and teachers.

They’re people who don’t want you to get hurt.

So instead of telling you that “they’ll be there for you when you need them”, they just tell you to stop trying so damn hard.

And, shamefully, that makes them “stupid people.”

People who will rob you of massive, mind-blowingly legendary success.

They would have told Thomas Edison to stop working 18-hour days trying to find the perfect combination of materials to keep the light-bulb burning longer.

Heck, long before the 1,000 plus tries it took Edison to solve this problem, stupid people would have told him something logical like: “Look at what you’ve done.  It’s not working.  Maybe it’s time to get a real job”.

They would have done the same thing with Alexander Bell and his telephone, Felix Hoffman and his recipe for Aspirin, and Sir John Harrington and his invention of the flushing toilet.

Amazing things exist because passionate people make the choice to stop listening to the stupid people around them.

They know it’s going to be rough.

They know they’re going to get hurt.

But they don’t let misguided (but mostly well-meaning) people steal their dreams in place of comfort.

Like Henri Cochet in 1927 at Wimbleton, you might have lost a lot getting to where you are right now.

The only option then, is to start winning.

And to start right now.


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  • http://www.salessells.com Wim Wilmsen

    It’s never a good idea to let someone else decide whether or not it’s a good idea to pursue your dreams. For every failure there is a success story to prove them wrong. Fact is that going after your dreams will always involve taking risks and that’s something most people are afraid of. If you are not, be proud of it, it’s an important quality of the entrepreneurial spirit.

    Wim

    • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

      And like in golf, it just takes that one great hit to forget all about the 87 other bad ones… :-)

      Dan

  • http://www.salessells.com Wim Wilmsen

    It’s never a good idea to let someone else decide whether or not it’s a good idea to pursue your dreams. For every failure there is a success story to prove them wrong. Fact is that going after your dreams will always involve taking risks and that’s something most people are afraid of. If you are not, be proud of it, it’s an important quality of the entrepreneurial spirit.

    Wim

  • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

    And like in golf, it just takes that one great hit to forget all about the 87 other bad ones… :-)

    Dan

  • http://twitter.com/tzubytheriver Sun Tzu

     This is great stuff Dan, this is exactly where I feel I am in my life, I have had to up-sticks and move away so that I can birth my dream – its been that drastic – but after 13 months of deep thought, strategising and implimentation I’m now on the cusp, my business launches in 2 days! – now the work really begins….. its great to have you guys at my side.

    • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

      What an amazing story.

      More of us need to fight so hard for our dreams.  I wish you all the best of success.  Let me know if I can help you with anything…

      Dan

  • http://twitter.com/tzubytheriver Sun Tzu

     This is great stuff Dan, this is exactly where I feel I am in my life, I have had to up-sticks and move away so that I can birth my dream – its been that drastic – but after 13 months of deep thought, strategising and implimentation I’m now on the cusp, my business launches in 2 days! – now the work really begins….. its great to have you guys at my side.

  • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

    What an amazing story.

    More of us need to fight so hard for our dreams.  I wish you all the best of success.  Let me know if I can help you with anything…

    Dan

  • http://FindingWhy.com/ Joel D Canfield

    I’m realising, the past couple days, that the biggest challenge I’ve had the past 7 weeks has been that I came here to spend spring with my semi-invalid mother; back home, where people think a certain way.

    Not quite every day she says, so, have you thought about just getting a job? Your father always had a good job. At least you’d always know where the next paycheck was coming from. Here’s the newspaper; I’ll bet you can find a good job if you just look.

    Since I’ve been here, I’ve made a lot of progress on some great stuff. I can only imagine what it would have been if I wasn’t pushing a boulder uphill at the same time.

    • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

      Joel,

      That boulder is a big part of who we are and what we want for ourselves.

      Just think you could be rolling a pebble up hill. Would you feel any better about doing that?

      Dan

      • http://FindingWhy.com/ Joel D Canfield

        What I need to do is either choose to push the boulder, or choose NOT to push the boulder, and stop pretending someone else is making me do it.

        • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

          RIGHT ON… 

  • http://CanfieldOfDreams.com/ Joel D Canfield

    I’m realising, the past couple days, that the biggest challenge I’ve had the past 7 weeks has been that I came here to spend spring with my semi-invalid mother; back home, where people think a certain way.

    Not quite every day she says, so, have you thought about just getting a job? Your father always had a good job. At least you’d always know where the next paycheck was coming from. Here’s the newspaper; I’ll bet you can find a good job if you just look.

    Since I’ve been here, I’ve made a lot of progress on some great stuff. I can only imagine what it would have been if I wasn’t pushing a boulder uphill at the same time.

  • Elena Bereschinova

    Thank you Dan for another thought-provoking and inspirational story.  Frankly speaking, I’ve never heard about Henri Cochet, but his story of triumph impressed me. And yes, I agree that all too often those are our closest people who actually – and, hopefully, unintentionally, – hamper our success. Partially, that’s because they love us very much – and as you put it – don’t want us to get hurt. But sometimes, however, that can be envy, fear, disbelief…

    • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

      Elena,

      You bring up a great point.

      Sometimes it is envy and fear that makes you tell us others to be less than our best…

      Dan

  • Elena Bereschinova

    Thank you Dan for another thought-provoking and inspirational story.  Frankly speaking, I’ve never heard about Henri Cochet, but his story of triumph impressed me. And yes, I agree that all too often those are our closest people who actually – and, hopefully, unintentionally, – hamper our success. Partially, that’s because they love us very much – and as you put it – don’t want us to get hurt. But sometimes, however, that can be envy, fear, disbelief…

  • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

    Elena,

    You bring up a great point.

    Sometimes it is envy and fear that makes you tell us others to be less than our best…

    Dan

  • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

    Joel,

    That boulder is a big part of who we are and what we want for ourselves.

    Just think you could be rolling a pebble up hill. Would you feel any better about doing that?

    Dan

  • http://FindingWhy.com/ Joel D Canfield

    What I need to do is either choose to push the boulder, or choose NOT to push the boulder, and stop pretending someone else is making me do it.

  • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

    RIGHT ON… 

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