8.25.2011

It’s Going to Hurt Like Hell Unless You’re Doing it Wrong.

Getting what you want most for you it a lot of hard work.  A lot of pain.

That whole “working smarter” thing that you hear experts talking about isn’t all that it’s knocked up to be.

While you’re busy chasing the low impact solution for accomplishing your goals, the best strategy is right in front of your face.

Straight up the hill.

You run right over the obstacle in your way.

As your legs push off the hot pavement, your muscles strain against the weight landing on your outstretched toes.

Through the soles of your shoes you can feel the outer edge of your feet scrape against cracks in the street.

Your lungs gasp violently for air.  Your arms flail at your side reaching out at awkward angles as if to pull yourself towards your goal.

And it all hurts.

There is no pleasure.  No working smarter.  Only the raw hurt of ambitious intentions and unrelenting resolve.

Pain is what works.

It forces you to work.  It forces you to focus.

It accentuates the reasons why you are working so hard.

And it’s only pain that does that.

What comes naturally to you is to avoid anything that hurts.  To stay in your comfort zone.

It’s all in our head.

It starts with how you view life.

If you’re living and learning without the expectation that there is going to be an easy way, you start to notice that you become successful just shortly after life starts hurting like hell.

Right about the time you think you won’t make it, you do.

Just after everything comes crashing down around you, you find yourself standing taller, shouting louder, and challenging the gods to “bring it on”.

Because you got hurt.

It wasn’t fear that made you better, it was the hurt.

It was your pain.

Stop running from pain.  Run to it.

It’s what makes you better.

It’s your ticket to getting the things you want most for you.


  • Tim_mushey

    Ahhh Ha Dan! You have been getting inspiration from you running. Great stuff. Very powerful words to live by. You totally hit the nail on the head at the suggestion of running in to the pain, rather than avoiding it.
     
    Now, I am not as committed a runner as you are, but I have drawn a lot of strength from my running too. I draw a lot of parallels between my career aspirations and the actual run that I am on.
     
    I visualize my run as the journey that I am on to start my own part time business in the future, and do not stop during the run. When it hurts the most at the end, and I just want to quit, I actually speed up. I am actually visualizing the “light at the end of the tunnel” for my business aspiration, where quitting is not an option, so I don’t quit at the end of my run either!

  • http://www.linkedin.com/pub/tim-mushey/8/428/305 Tim Mushey

    Ahhh Ha Dan! You have been getting inspiration from you running. Great stuff. Very powerful words to live by. You totally hit the nail on the head at the suggestion of running in to the pain, rather than avoiding it.
     
    Now, I am not as committed a runner as you are, but I have drawn a lot of strength from my running too. I draw a lot of parallels between my career aspirations and the actual run that I am on.
     
    I visualize my run as the journey that I am on to start my own part time business in the future, and do not stop during the run. When it hurts the most at the end, and I just want to quit, I actually speed up. I am actually visualizing the “light at the end of the tunnel” for my business aspiration, where quitting is not an option, so I don’t quit at the end of my run either!

    • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

      It’s sometimes easier to take “real life” physical pain and contrast it with the emotional pain of frustration and confusion and fear that we feel.

      Both hurt but we seem to be better at handling the physical pain that comes our way.

      Dan

      p.s. BTW, a good run now and then is a great way to stay sane

  • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

    It’s sometimes easier to take “real life” physical pain and contrast it with the emotional pain of frustration and confusion and fear that we feel.

    Both hurt but we seem to be better at handling the physical pain that comes our way.

    Dan

    p.s. BTW, a good run now and then is a great way to stay sane

  • http://asimpleguyblog.blogspot.com Dan Collins

    Not too shabby Waldo – Well said my friend.

  • http://asimpleguyblog.blogspot.com Dan Collins

    Not too shabby Waldo – Well said my friend.

    • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

      Thanks, Dan.

      Thanks for stopping by.

      • Lann977

        I can’t count the number of times that I’ve reminded myself that the only resolve to the current pain that I’m experiencing is to go thru the fire rather than around it. Sure, going around it IS an option, but the same pain will keep reoccurring in one’s path until the strength is found, and perhaps some courage too, to face life’s challenges head on and learn the lessons they bring. Don’t wish to live an easy life, wish to truly ‘live’ life!

        Thank you for reminding me tonight to take the road less traveled. I read your post twice, reached deep inside to find my courage and faced a current challenge I had been trying to sooth my way around. All I can say is that now, the smile on my face is genuine and heartfelt.

  • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

    Thanks, Dan.

    Thanks for stopping by.

  • Lann977

    I can’t count the number of times that I’ve reminded myself that the only resolve to the current pain that I’m experiencing is to go thru the fire rather than around it. Sure, going around it IS an option, but the same pain will keep reoccurring in one’s path until the strength is found, and perhaps some courage too, to face life’s challenges head on and learn the lessons they bring. Don’t wish to live an easy life, wish to truly ‘live’ life!

    Thank you for reminding me tonight to take the road less traveled. I read your post twice, reached deep inside to find my courage and faced a current challenge I had been trying to sooth my way around. All I can say is that now, the smile on my face is genuine and heartfelt.

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