12.7.2011

The Audacity of Second Chances.

It’s over.  You had your chance.

And you blew it.

You failed.  In spectacular fashion.

What you thought you could do, you did do.  It’s didn’t work.

You’re left with the pieces.

That is all.  Pieces.

Nothing whole.  Not you.  Not your idea.  Not the expectation of success.

Only pieces.  Pieces of a dream that once glimmered brightly in the the twilight of an beckoning future.

And there you stand, drenched in the folly of trying something different.  Of wasted passion.  Of failed pursuit.

And the situation calls for reflection.  It demands perspective.  Your attention.

How dare you break from the norm?

One thing is clear.  You ventured too far from the edges of reasonable behavior.  You attempted the impossible without the approval of those in your way.

But despite the pain of this moment, there you stand — alive.

Not untouched but not fatally moved.

Mortal?  Yes.

Stoppable?  No.

Because no matter how bad today was, you know that tomorrow brings a second chance.  A chance to conquer the unknown.  A chance to turn defeat into conquest.

And knowing that you get a second chance means that every first effort is nothing but the luckiest opportunity you get.  A chance to beat the house at it’s own game.  A chance to level the odds.

It is nothing but a warm-up for every other morning that dawns.

Today is the beginning of the end.

But not just for what you want —  for those who need it from you.  For those who look to you for that second chance.

You want another chance.  It’s your lifeline to sanity.  Your belief in humanity.

And it’s just as important for those around you.  For those you lead.

You think you’re different?  That you deserve something special?  That you are better?  More deserving?

The behavior and attitudes we find inexcusable in others is the default wiring for how we make our own decisions.

We all need unconditional love.

We need leaders who understand that failure is just a time of day not a permanent label.

It might not be popular, academic, or “tough enough” to believe in a flawed performer.

But the audacity of a second chance might be the only thing standing in the way of their success.

A second chance from you.


  • Leightoncubbage

    Awesome! True!
    Thanks Dan

    • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

      You are welcome.  I am glad this resonated with you. 

      Great to hang out with you yesterday.  I am looking forward to doing that again…

      Dan 

  • http://twitter.com/RobertTerson Robert Terson

    Delightfully inspiring, Dan; what more could you say to a post which leaves you smiling and thinking of Annie singing, “Tomorrow, tomorrow, I love you, tomorrow, you’re only a day a away…”?  This while Don Quixote nods his approval, as he takes a short break from attacking windmills.

    • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

      Thanks @twitter-305149235:disqus .  I wrote this for myself after having “one of those days” and have been getting emails and calls about it since.

      Seems other people need the same discussion.

      Dan

  • http://carouselsalesblog.blogspot.com Cara Celli

    If someone genuinely cares about their own performance, then they deserve a second chance.

    • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

      That’s right, Cara.  

      Let me push you further.  Sometimes people need us to believe in them even when they don’t believe in themselves.

      Dan

      p.s.  What do you think?

      • http://carouselsalesblog.blogspot.com Cara Celli

        I’m glad you understood where I was going, Dan. I’ve seen so many people who genuinely cared, but failed to deliver. Did they deserve a second chance? Absolutely. Because they cared. Very few people are so completely apathetic that they just don’t give a damn. Sometimes, the opposite is true. You care too much, and you fail. You completely fall on your face in front of everyone. Your ego takes a beating, and you begin to question why you even tried. That’s when you need a second chance the most.

        • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

          Well stated, Cara.

  • Leanne Hoagland-Smith

    How many give up and more importantly why do they give up?  Is it the outside world driving thoughts inward or is it the inside world drive thoughts outward? 

    • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

      WOW…  Great questions.  I think if you answer those questions, then you are ready to be amazing…

      Dan

      p.s.  You got me thinking…  :-)

    • Jim

      Excellent questions! That’s a great reminder to be aware of the chatter around us but continue to believe in yourself.

      Jim

      • http://www.DanWaldschmidt.com/ Dan Waldschmidt

        I think you are right Jim.  

        It’s foolish to ignore reality.  But’s insane to assume that reality is your destiny.  

        Change it.

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