24.2.2015 Extreme Behavior | Love | Pain

How Much Better Should Your Life Be?

It’s hard to have tough conversations. That’s why we call them “tough”. The kind where you crinkle your eyes and tip your head to the side. The kind where you can’t even look the other person in the eye. Those are the tough times where it’s painfully difficult to communicate what you feel. What you want to Read More 

9.12.2014 Attitude | Business | Extreme Behavior | Fear | Leadership | Love | Pain

27 Hard Questions Awesome People Ask Themselves Right Now.

What are the top five things you know you need to do right now that you been avoiding? Who is the one person in your life you need to build a better relationship with right now? How much money do you need to set aside right now for your safety net so that you can Read More 

4.12.2014 Love | Pain

The Days We Cry.

I was sitting on the grass in my backyard watching my mother water the garden. I was a teenager at the time — just returned from spending most of the summer in Mexico doing missionary work. I was part of a team who passed out rice and beans and Bibles to poor people in Mexico. That was Read More 

25.11.2014 Fear | Love | Pain

It All Changes When It’s Your Baby.

It’s easy to have strong opinions about someone else’s situation — until you’re in that situation yourself. It’s easy to judge what someone else is doing — how they are reacting to the situation they’re in at the moment — when you don’t have to be in that situation yourself. You believe in justice. So do Read More 

15.10.2014 Attitude | Fear | Love | Pain

What To Do When Awesome People Do Dumb Things.

Just because you want “it” to be that way doesn’t mean it’s going to happen. Being logical is the ultimate ironic discussion. It’s completely perspective based. And constantly changing. How many times have you found yourself puzzled because someone around you made a decision that seems completely crazy? How many times have you seen a tragic circumstance evolve from a simple Read More 

2.9.2014 Attitude | Extreme Behavior | Leadership | Love | Selfishness

As Silly As Wet Sweaters In the Sahara.

So many of the obstacles in your way are there because you put them there. You didn’t just put them in your way, you defend them being there. You argue and fight to make sure that they are there. And then turn around and complain that “life isn’t fair” — complaining that you seem to have more obstacles than everyone else Read More