Do you have big dreams? For 2010? For right now?
What you do, how far you succeed, what you achieve — they all come from what you think about. They all come from what you are thinking about RIGHT now…
And here’s the kicker……
Controlling your thoughts is the hardest part about struggling toward success. There is nothing more difficult. There is not a bigger challenge. Frankly, nothing you do is more important.
Let’s face it. The journey is brutal and you will likely end up bruised and battered along the way, but above all else you have to remain mentally tough. You have to stay focused on your future.
(Are you shaking your head yet? Do you agree with me?)
Good. Let’s get our hands dirty with this….
Let’s talk about your finances and your relationships. These are the two biggest areas of concern for any of us.
When thing start going to sh#%!t in these two areas, it is harder to stay focused on your future. Close to impossible. You get sidetracked and start thinking about how to solve the most recent problem instead of spending effort and time on your destiny.
That’s usually never a good thing.
YES, you need to get distractions out-of-the-way before you start tackling your goals, but also you need to be cognizant of what you are doing – of the impact of your change in focus.
When you let personal matters — like your finances — go unchecked, you find yourself trading the right thing for the right now thing.
Isn’t the biggest influence on our decisions on ANY given day personal finances? So if you don’t have a handle on your budget, start fixing it today. There are plenty of tools to help you solve this problem.
Try using Mint or Rudder to manage where your money goes. And while you are at it, go grab Peter Dunn‘s new book, 60 Days to Change. Solve your bad habit of hoping everything works out and guarantee that it starts heading that direction.
Know what I am saying? Take control of your goals — your dreams of destiny — by taking real-world, tangible action to boost your success.
Don’t pretend this doesn’t apply to you either. I know the “I’ll just sell more” excuse. I was king of that line of thinking for way too long. There is a better way to capture your dream. Peter actually makes it fun.
Anything that comes between you and your goal — physical or mental — is your enemy and you must destroy it… Take money off your brain and start focusing on deals that will help you be a bigger success…
FULL DISCLOSURE: Pete’s team asked me my thoughts on the book and here is what I wrote on the back cover of his book:
“You can’t change the world while fighting with the bank to forgive your 17 overdraft fees. To get extreme results, you have to take control of your personal finances. Pete breaks it all down with wit and wisdom into a 60-day mission of personal financial domination. In between chuckles, you’ll be kicking yourself that you didn’t read this earlier.”